How To Heal Your Heartbreak

Knowing something rarely makes much of a difference.

There's no shortage of great heartbreak information out in the world, but we noticed ONE crucial step is often missing, the step to IMPLEMENT and INTEGRATE what you're learning. If you don't know how to implement (which leads to integration), learning something new isn't going to change anything. When your heart is broken and you're at the bottom of your emotional reserves you need immediate access to step-by-step processes specifically designed to help you integrate what you're learning so you can heal properly.

You need a plan.
You need guidance.
You need mentorship from people who have been there AND found their way through.

This program is a by-product of our combined 20+ years of experience in the fields of relationship psychology, psycho-spiritual coaching and integrative emotional intelligence work. In addition to our professional expertise, our own personal experiences of navigating the tender terrain of heartbreak, have been added to create the best program on the market to combine the wisdom of the heart and intelligence of the mind, practicality and emotionality, theory and real life integration.

All processes, exercises and directives within in this program have been personally vetted and tested in our own lives and in the lives of our clients, with extraordinary results including: expanded emotional freedom, mental clarity, deeper interpersonal connections, greater relational discernment, the identification and reinforcement of relational needs, ability to maintain healthy boundaries, emotional attunement (with self and others) and the willingness to bravely love again.

This program contains every element required to help your heart heal properly by teaching you the social, emotional and relational skills you need to meet those inevitable painful times in life with more grace, awareness and resiliency.


This program is your roadmap to work through heartbreak effectively so you don't repeat your past mistakes in the future.


You can listen to a lot of crap out there, but do your heart a solid and only invest with people who have a proven track record. This is a very tender and impressionable time. With the right support, you can avoid turning into the hardened cynic who swears off love and makes everyone around them miserable because their pain was never fully felt, honoured and integrated.

The right support looks like a comprehensive program equipped to provide the essentials for emotional healing, tools to move forward powerfully and the skills to powerfully set your next relational foundation when your heart is ready.

We couldn't find a program out in the world delivering on all these levels, so we created the resource we wish we had during our most painful heartbreaks and the program we know based on our professional successes, truly works.


We also wanted to make this education accessible.


We understand it's not always financially feasible to do long-term therapy, or register into a high level coaching program, or even hire a coach at all, or purchase thousands of books or programs. So we've done the heavy lifting for you.

Our professional and personal experience has led us to synthesize thousands of books, podcasts, personal and relational development programs, relational coaching and traditional therapy sessions along with formal social-psychological training. This wellspring of knowledge is embedded within each module of this program and our content is styled in ways to mirror elements of coaching sessions we provide in our higher level coaching programs. We designed exercises from more traditional therapeutic models to give you the experience of potent relational education, therapeutic tools and coaching within one program that doesn't break the budget.

By providing a top level resource for people who are at their most tender and vulnerable place, at a price point anyone can easily access, we stay true to our soul mission of providing global relational education and ensuring we do our part to make this world a more loving place.

Historically, knowledge and support on this level and calibre has only been accessible to those in a certain earning bracket, but we wanted to change that.

Emotional healing tools should be accessible to anyone who truly has a desire to change.

We believe your income shouldn't determine whether or not you're able to access the tools to live a high quality life and enjoy relationships that feel good to be in. Through this program, you can work with your hurt and access answers to transform how you love and elevate your life to be more congruently aligned with the deep longing we all have for purpose and fulfillment.

Lack of purpose and fulfillment pushes people to gravitate towards using romantic relationships to fill this void. By using the tools to heal from the inside out, you're able to powerfully reclaim your own personal relationship to self, recall your purpose, design an enriching and fulfilling life AND receive the relational skills to powerfully connect in your romantic relationships going forward.

We know you're not the type of person willing to stay stuck or immobilized by denial. You wouldn't be reading this if you were.

We know you want the pain to stop. We want that for you too.
We know you want to understand what is going on inside you so you're truly free. We want that for you too.
We know you want to prepare yourself for better love next time. We want that for you too.

We'll be real with you, there isn't a quick fix or fast track to get through this. It takes as long as it takes.

No one can guarantee your immediate healing.

Heartbreak brings up everything unresolved, all the old undigested pain from your relational past that's been camping out in your psyche. Because no two people have the same history, no two people will have the same healing path or timeline. It's going to take you as long as your heart says it will, not your head, your heart.

The old pain that is rising is reinforced by your unconscious love template. This template was installed in your psyche by the time you were 3. This collection of information, experiences and feelings unconsciously influences how you do, perceive, act and react when it comes to love and relationships. Because this is such OLD programming, it's going to take time, dedication and commitment to transform the pieces of your template incongruent with the love you desire.

The BEST Time To Do This Healing is When You're Heartbroken.

WHY?

• Because your inner shit is front and centre in your mind.
• Every belief you have lurking in your psyche that is incongruent with love comes up.
• All the self defeating self-talk gets real loud and clear.
• All your neurotic self-avoidance strategies and numbing behaviours come out of hiding and try to take over.
• Your shadow material gets excavated in the form of judgements, projections, and false beliefs about your worth and value.
• Any hidden ideas or agendas in your love template that REPELL love, commitment and partnership start to reek havoc on your perception of the future (aka. "No one will ever love me." "There is something wrong with me.").

Breakups are emotional pressure cookers.

The experience of heartache creates internal, emotional and psychological pressure. The shadow material that comes out of us when we're hurting isn't new. It's been hiding in our blindspot and sabotaging us in love and life. The pressure of emotional pain brings it out into clear view. When it's in clear view we can work with these aspects of ourselves, understand them more intimately and create space to do things differently.

But let's be clear, what comes out during this time is often ugly and hard to accept. We have to meet the vindictive, retaliatory, reactionary and deeply hurt parts of ourselves — before our course in love changes. This isn't easy stuff, which is why having guidance, a practical roadmap and the experience of two love experts who have made it through the other side countless times — is the best course of action to truly honour what you're going through.

If one or more of these points reflects your experience, this program is for you:

• You're going through a recent breakup, separation or divorce.
• Your ex moved on lightning fast and it's weighing heavily on your heart.
• You feel like your time together was insignificant, you're replaceable or your ex didn't love you as much as you loved them.
• Your ex hasn't officially moved on, but emotionally and energetically they seem over it.
• Your relationship ended a while ago but you're still incomplete about it, you think about it regularly and feel blocked to fully move forward into a new relationship.
• You gave up parts of yourself in the relationship, or withheld parts of yourself and felt resentful towards your ex.
• Your past relationship was combative or emotionally toxic.
• You felt unseen, unheard or misunderstood.
• It was difficult to get your needs met with your ex partner.
• It was difficult to identify your needs to your ex partner.
• You're feeling lost, alone, ashamed, humiliated, embarrassed or afraid of your single status.
• You see you have some patterns in relationships that aren't working for you.
• You're willing to heal properly, do your healing work and not looking for a quick instant fix.

• How to truly heal your heartbreak whether your ex has moved on quickly or it feels like they're over it.
• How to heal your heartbreak in the healthiest and most powerful way possible.
• How to set the proper environment for your healing.
• Break old patterns of self-neglect, self-sabotage and self-rejection so you don't make the same love mistakes again.
• Improve your emotional literacy (you can't heal something you can't name and identify, we stay stuck emotionally when we don't know how to work with our emotions instead of being controlled by them).
• Understand your relational patterns.
• Transform the inner critic to an inner cheerleader.
• Identify your core relational needs.
• Understand your unconscious sabotage patterns that are hiding out in your shadow emotional material.
• How to get true closure.
• How to navigate sharing a social circle with your ex.
• Relational boundaries.
• The ultimate heartbreak self-care.
• Practical day-by-day processes to stay grounded, connected and secure within yourself.
• How to use your heartbreak to expand your capacity to love.